Hosa makes what you are looking for and so does ProCo.

I think even Monster. Go to your local GC and get them

Hosa is here http://www.hosatech.com/hosa/products/yxl-119.html
http://www.hosatech.com/hosa/products/ymm-232.html

ProCo would probably be custom http://www.procosound.com/products.htm

Monster would be here for the heaphones http://

Here as well for the microphone Y adpater http://www.audiogear.com/Audio-Adapters-Xlr.html

I need a 1/4" Y cable, not 1/8th though..and both those links I did a search and couldn't turn up anything..got another link for this type?

THANKS THANKS THANKS!!!

Here it is link removed or at the HOSA site. Look around at http://www.hosatech.com/ and you could also check with your local GC or Radio Shack or Sam Ash. I have even seen them at flea markets and in high end stereo stores. I simply looked for 1/4 inch Stereo Y cord on the net. Hope this helps.

OK, not to be sarcastic here. Im serious. I made 2 talkback switch boxes in this manner.

Radioshack!

Small 3"X2"X1"ABS project box: $2.99
1/4" stereo female surface mounts 3 of them for: $4.99
Wire .99 cents

Drill 3 holes in the ABS box, 2 on the top 1 on the side,
solder the wiring from 1 of the jacks to the other 2,
screw the top on the box. : 20 minutes.

Knowing you did it yourself the way you want it: Priceless 8-)

That's the one! thanks a lot man!