That's exactly what I did, Steve. I bought a fostex vf-160 DAW, THEN joined RO. If I had joined RO first, I would probably have gotten cubase SX, or something.
So, I saw this DAW in musician's friend, and I thought it was everything I needed to record, in a box (where would I get such an idea?). Right off the bat, I start running into things like: The ad said sixteen track simultaneous recording, which was one of the main reasons I bought it. It's only got eight inputs. You have two buy another $300 piece of gear to get that capability. Phantom power, but only on two channels. XLR inputs, but only on two channels (same two). Channel inserts, but only on two channels (same). So basically it has two good and six ok channels. The editing is not accurate enough to move a kick drum around. It has scrub zoom, but only for what the manual calls "finding a cue" before a song. I have located a point only to find it has moved once I come out of the scrub mode. Very frustrating.
Now granted, you only get what you pay for, but I didn't know what to buy. If I knew then what I know now, I probably would have bought the Yamaha aw4416, I've heard it's the real deal.
We are getting some recordings now, that are starting to sound good. I do know that I don't want to get to the point where I just listen for production and not for the song. I'm no pro engineer, and I probably never will be. But I am going to do the best I can with what I have, and then see if I can get it on the radio.
It would be nice if some of the companies would be a little more up-front about their products, telling what they will do, AND what they won't do. Getting started in recording is a lot like pulling yourself up by your bootstraps. One of the smart things I did was to buy a pile of books on the subject, and read them until some of the fog went away. I could go on and on about this subject, but I'll save some bandwidth for someone else.
Andy