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I've played/sung at larger venues before, but never at a coffee house open mic. It was really weird. What are you supposed to look at? My darling wife claimed that my eyes were closed the majority of the time. I think it would be weird to have a moment where I made I contact with people. It would just be awkward. What do you guys do?

Thanks!

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aaronwaudio Sun, 05/29/2011 - 07:01

I think closing your eyes in a situation like that is totally appropriate. Making eye contact wouldn't have to be awkward though. It could engage the audience more. A good way to do it is to focus right above people's heads. It gives the impression that you are looking at everyone at once. Works really well and you wouldn't have to make direct eye contact. Give it a try.

thatjeffguy Sun, 05/29/2011 - 12:04

To me, when I watch a performer whop closes their eyes I feel cut off from their performance. I also feel that the performer lacks confidence and is hiding from the audience. It takes a bit of practice, but well worth it for you to consciously work on your stage presence... you can't be 'present' if you're hiding! I usually look at a group of people on one side of the stage, lingering for several moments before moving to another area. Moving too quickly or too frequently conveys nervousness, lingering conveys confidence. After a while you'll enjoy the contact and it won't be awkward at all.
Jeff

BobRogers Tue, 05/31/2011 - 13:30

moonbaby, post: 372033 wrote: I do what my Dad suggested from his many years of giving speeches and as a layreader in the church...visualise the audience as a bunch of folks sitting around in their underwear. That immediately puts me at ease, it is a very popular method.

If there are beautiful women in the audience it is important to have the guitar in your lap when you do this.