Hi Mathjs

I just had a look at your website and listened to a song called Fading (I'm assuming this is the music you are referring to in your post ). Because it's in mp3 format and I'm listening on crappy computer speakers I can't make any comments about actual sound quality.
Anyway, the mix is all over place, piano way out in front whilst drums, guitar and bass sound like their in a different room. The only suggestion I can make here is to get someone else to mix your music for the moment and you try and learn from them.

Sorry, this is probably not what you wanted hear, but maybe someone who's listening on their studio monitors can give a bit more of an insight on actual sound quality.

Good luck

Liam

try to record everything as dry as possible
then use one reverb(and/or delay) on a single bus

try sending stuff that has to be backward(like drums) a little more out to the bus.
this is a great way to start using depth in your recordings. first get the volume balanced.
then get the soundstaging alright (panning L-R)
then try what i described above.
then redo the balance+soundstaging again.

try to make it sound as if you were standing in front of the band.

Incidentally, If you're having trouble making a mic'd guitar amp sound "close enough," disabling/muting/muffling all but one speaker is a great way eliminate any phasing that can accompany, say, a carelessly mic'd 4x10 cab.